Yes, Secular Franciscans are allowed to marry. The Secular Franciscan Order (OFS) is open to laypersons who wish to follow the teachings and spirituality of St. Francis of Assisi while living in the secular world. Unlike ordained members of the Franciscan family, such as priests and brothers, Secular Franciscans live out their vocation in their everyday lives, which includes marriage and family.
It’s important to note that while they can marry, Secular Franciscans are called to embody the Franciscan values of peace, humility, and service in their relationships, including within marriage. Their commitment to living a life of faith and service should reflect in how they treat their spouses and families, maintaining a balance between their secular responsibilities and their spiritual commitments.