The female version of the Peter Pan Syndrome is often referred to as the “Peter Pan Syndrome for women” or it can be considered within the broader context of the “Wendy Syndrome.” This term is derived from the character Wendy Darling from J.M. Barrie’s Peter Pan, who is characterized by her nurturing and motherly attributes, often taking on responsibility for others while neglecting her own growth and desires.
Women experiencing this syndrome may struggle with fully embracing adulthood, feeling pressured to take care of others rather than pursuing their own ambitions. They might cling to a youthful idealism or remain in relationships that allow them to play a caretaking role instead of becoming independent.
Just like the original Peter Pan Syndrome, which describes men who refuse to grow up and embrace adult responsibilities, the female counterpart reflects a similar hesitation to fully engage with adult life but often focuses on caregiving and nurturing identities. The consequence can be a sense of dissatisfaction or unfulfillment as they sacrifice their own goals for the sake of others.