Definition, Meaning & Synonyms
you-cant-have-it-both-ways
idiomatic expression
/juː kænt hæv ɪt boʊθ weɪz/
Definition
A phrase used to indicate that one cannot have two conflicting desires or options at the same time without making a compromise.
Examples
- When deciding between the two job offers, remember you can’t have it both ways.
- She wants to be a successful artist but also wants to spend every weekend with her friends; you can’t have it both ways.
- In relationships, sometimes you can’t have it both ways; you have to make sacrifices.
Meaning
This expression suggests that if you choose one option, you must forgo the other, as both cannot coexist.
Synonyms
- you can’t do both
- you must choose
- one or the other
