Definition, Meaning & Synonyms

wear-the-pants

idiom
/wɛr ðə pænts/
Definition
To be the dominant or leading partner in a relationship.
Examples
  • In their relationship, she definitely wears the pants.
  • He joked that his wife wears the pants when it comes to holiday plans.
Meaning
This phrase typically refers to the person in a relationship who makes the decisions or has the most control.
Synonyms
  • lead
  • be in charge
  • take the reins