Definition, Meaning & Synonyms
have-someone-by-the-short-and-curlies
idiom
ˈhæv ˈsʌmwʌn baɪ ðə ʃɔrt ənd ˈkɜrliz
Definition
To have complete control over someone, often in a way that makes them feel trapped or vulnerable.
Examples
- When his boss threatened to fire him, he realized he was really being had by the short and curlies.
- She felt he had her by the short and curlies, making it hard to voice her opinions.
Meaning
This phrase implies that one person has power or influence over another person, typically in a way that is uncomfortable or coercive.
Synonyms
- have someone under control
- have someone in a tight spot
- have someone at a disadvantage
