Definition, Meaning & Synonyms

alls-fair-in-love-and-war

Proverb

/ɔlz fɛr ɪn lʌv ænd wɔr/

Definition

A phrase used to express that in certain situations, particularly in love and conflict, any behavior is permissible in order to achieve one’s goals.

Examples

In his pursuit of her heart, he believed that all’s fair in love and war, so he wasn’t afraid to compete with her other suitors.
The politician used underhanded tactics during the campaign, arguing that all’s fair in love and war.

Meaning

This saying implies that normal rules of fairness and morality can be overlooked when it comes to love and warfare, suggesting that one can act without restrictions to attain their desires or objectives.