Definition, Meaning & Synonyms

have-it-both-ways

idiom
/hæv ɪt boʊθ weɪz/
Definition
To have the advantages of two different situations without having to make a choice or compromise.
Examples
  • She wants to have it both ways by asking for a raise while also wanting to work fewer hours.
  • It’s not possible to have it both ways; you need to decide what’s more important to you.
Meaning
This phrase is often used to describe someone who wants to enjoy the benefits of opposing actions or outcomes, without acknowledging the necessity of choosing one over the other.
Synonyms
  • double standard
  • contradictory
  • self-serving