Definition, Meaning & Synonyms

an iron fist in a velvet glove

idiom
/ən ˈaɪərn fɪst ɪn ə ˈvɛlvɪt ɡlʌv/
Definition
A strong, ruthless authority that presents itself in a gentle or kind manner.
Examples
  • The CEO has an iron fist in a velvet glove approach, leading the company with both kindness and strictness.
  • Though he seems approachable, his management style is often seen as an iron fist in a velvet glove.
Meaning
This expression is used to describe someone who is strict or harsh but hides it behind a facade of softness or gentleness.
Synonyms
  • Softly spoken strength
  • Gentle authority
  • Firm yet kind