Definition, Meaning & Synonyms
heap-coals-of-fire-on-someones-head
idiom
/hiːp koʊlz əv faɪər ɒn ˈsʌmˌwʌnz hɛd/
Definition
To show kindness to someone who has wronged you, in a way that may lead to feelings of shame or remorse.
Examples
- Despite his harsh words, she decided to heap coals of fire on his head by helping him succeed at work.
- By forgiving her rival and offering her support, she was heaping coals of fire on her head.
Meaning
This phrase suggests that by treating someone well, despite their negative actions, you may cause them to feel guilty or reconsider their behavior.
Synonyms
- Show kindness to an enemy
- Respond with good to evil
- Turn the other cheek
